It seems in male-dominated Muslim powerhouses, women may not be entitled to mirth.
First, a top Turkish official last month reproached women for laughing in public, deeming such expressions immodest and a sign of the country’s moral erosion. Now a Saudi social research center reports that 80 percent of people questioned in a national survey blame the scourge of sexual harassment plaguing the country on the “deliberate flirtatious behavior” of women.
Feminist advocates in both countries dismissed the judgments as age-old reactions to changing social behavior and a tendency in conservative cultures to accuse the victim of provoking her mistreatment.
In Turkey, Deputy Prime Minister Bulent Arinc spurred scorn and mockery when he described the ideal woman as one who “will not laugh in front of everyone and she will not display her attractiveness.” Hundreds of Turkish women flocked to the Internet to post pictures and videos of themselves grinning and guffawing in defiance of Arinc’s admonitions in a speech marking the end of the Muslim holy month of Ramadan.
The sexual harassment survey in Saudi Arabia by the King Abdulaziz Center for National Dialogue in Riyadh stirred a more muted reaction in the kingdom, where women remain more socially marginalized than in purportedly secular Turkey.
“This report reflects an ongoing cycle within our community that blames any negative connotation within our society on the weakness of one’s religious beliefs, and on women,” activist Yara Wazir told Al Arabiya news agency.
“Our society is not built on mutual respect or accepting differences,” she said, “even when it comes to something as God-given as gender.”
Wazir attributed the tendency to accuse women of inviting harassment to a lack of exposure to the opposite sex, which “encourages overanalyzing of simple actions such as a smile, suggesting that is flirtation,” she told the news agency.
Muna Abusulayman, a prominent media personality in the Arab world, called the survey results indicative of a conservative society’s difficulty in adjusting to “the novelty of a mixed-gender work environment.”
Only about 16 percent of Saudi women are employed, and most of them work in segregated offices to prevent their interaction with men to whom they are not related. But as the leadership seeks to diversify the economy from its heavy dependence on oil trade, more women are being drawn into the workforce and in some cases working alongside unrelated men.
Saudi women aren’t allowed to drive, and in most regions are discouraged from appearing in public without a male relative chaperone or the black abaya, hijab and niqab that obscure them from head to toe except for the eyes and hands.