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Published:September 30, 2011, 11:51 AM

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Updated: October 1, 2011, 12:07 PM

A student accused of harassing the sister of Jamey Rodemeyer at the Williamsville North High School Homecoming dance last week has been suspended by the school district.

District officials and the Amherst Police Department continue to investigate the homecoming incident and the bullying that Jamey endured before the high school freshman killed himself last month. No other suspensions or charges have been issued.

The suspension stems from a tense encounter at the Sept. 22 homecoming dance. Alyssa Rodemeyer said that as she and friends chanted Jamey's name, a "little group" of students approached her to say they were glad her brother took his life.

"I think it's a step in the right direction," Timothy Rodemeyer, the father of Jamey and Alyssa, said of the suspension.

In other developments in the case, which has grabbed intense national attention:

  • Alyssa revealed new details about the day Jamey killed himself and the events at the homecoming dance in an interview with CNN's Anderson Cooper.
  • Someone recorded parts of the homecoming incident, according to Alyssa, but police do not yet have the video.
  • Alyssa spoke to Amherst police detectives Thursday, and she and other students are scheduled to meet with district officials Monday.
  • Williamsville Schools Superintendent Scott G. Martzloff has begun to publicly defend the district's response to Jamey's suicide; he will attend a meeting Monday of the Parent Teacher Student Association at Williamsville North.

"Let me be clear: We will not let the actions of any student threaten the emotional well-being of others," Martzloff said in a video posted late Thursday on the district's website that revealed the suspension.

The suspension is the first disciplinary action taken since Jamey's Sept. 18 suicide.

Jamey was subjected to relentless bullying at Heim Middle School, harassment he documented in online forums where cyberbullies attacked him.

Jamey, who had questioned his sexuality and was seeing a school social worker and a counselor, was 14 and had just started at Williamsville North.

His sister told CNN's Cooper that she was the one who found Jamey's body in their backyard.

"I didn't really have time to soak it all in because I was in a state of shock and I was trying to do everything to, you know, call 911, get my parents, you know, try to save him," Alyssa says in an "Anderson Cooper 360" interview transcript.

The homecoming dance for Williamsville North, where Alyssa is a junior, was held the same night as a wake for Jamey.

Alyssa went to the dance from the wake with some friends, at the urging of her parents and to take their mind off the pain of Jamey's death, she told Cooper.

Jamey's favorite singer was Lady Gaga, and when one of her songs was played at the dance, Alyssa and her friends began singing along and chanting Jamey's name.

That's when, Alyssa said, "like three" students came up to her group and told her they were glad Jamey took his life.

Eventually, Alyssa said, the students stopped insulting her brother and they ran from the dance when it appeared they could get in trouble.

"I don't understand who would have the heart to disrespect someone even after they're dead. It's mind-blowing," she told Cooper.

A parent reported the incident to Amherst police, who interviewed a number of witnesses before talking to Alyssa on Thursday, said Amherst Police Capt. Michael Camilleri.

The confrontation was over by the time off-duty police officers at the event began to investigate. Amherst police previously said two sets of students accused the other side of inciting the conflict.

Police have interviewed the students named in the original police complaint but they haven't decided whether charges will be filed for anything that happened to Jamey before he died or to his sister at the homecoming event.

The student's suspension stems from the school district's ongoing investigation into what was said and done during the homecoming festivities.

"While our investigation continues, we have already identified a student that we believe is responsible for this incident, and have imposed a suspension to the fullest extent allowed under education law," Martzloff said in the online video the district posted Thursday.

He did not provide details, and wasn't available Friday for an interview. District spokeswoman Rita M. Wolff said she could not reveal further information on the student.

The Rodemeyers said they are glad the district has acted against a student accused of harassing their daughter, but they hope Jamey's bullies are held accountable. The Rodemeyers and their daughter will appear Monday on "Anderson Cooper 360."

"I think it's awesome that all this attention is coming on. I think it's also somewhat a sad thing," Tim Rodemeyer said. "I think the reason it's getting all this attention is because [bullying] is such a big problem."

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As for me,I choose to take a path less traveled.
RICK HUTCHINSON, BUFFALO, NY on Fri Sep 30, 2011 at 04:31 PM

Rick, ignorance isn't a less traveled road and you are a wagon master.
Don't make me call the GBLT secret gay squad on you. They have magical powers of gayness and they can even turn you gay....of course you will still be single.

MICHAEL SANTORO, BUFFALO, NY on Sat Oct 1, 2011 at 08:54 AM


Good grief ,man. I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy.

RICK HUTCHINSON, BUFFALO, NY on Sat Oct 1, 2011 at 09:25 PM

From what I see in the first couple pages of this blog are reactions without all or accurate facts. Let me clarify something. Jamie was in high school for 9 days.. During this time, there was no reports of bullying. Jamie's depression began and manifested in middle school at Heim. If people want to be upset, they should direct this to the entire Williamsville School system... Not Williamsville North. As far as the suspension goes.. this discipline was made based on the only proof they had. A phone video was taken by another student. Some could argue that this person who was suspended had the right of free speech.. After reading this blog, even adults can be very nasty too. On the flip side of this, the suspended student is being bullied and harassed by many of the students in the school which has been fueled by the parents and communities thirst for revenge( eye for an eye ) Jamie's death was a tragedy, but the destruction happened over many years.
Just this morning I read an article how a female sportscaster wrote a story making mention of the Buffalo Bills and their fans.. If you read the response she received it would be very clear the Bullying is an epidemic in all areas.. It starts as a child and graduates to adults... YES.. we also have an entire community of adult bullies and this problem is everywhere.
I am glad that people are talking and all of us should be outraged, but when posting a blog, please be constructive and considerate! Don't contribute to the problem of hatred!

JOHN KENYON , EAST AMHERST, on Sat Oct 1, 2011 at 08:06 PM

Williamsville North High School needs to do something now. Their response has been pathetic and unimpressive. I know what school district I would never move into with my family!

CHRIS SICA, BUFFALO, NY on Sat Oct 1, 2011 at 05:44 PM

Williamville you could learn from this.. How about teaching this in your schools.. http://www.fox5sandiego.com/news/kswb-students-pledge-against-bullying-20110929,0,7863325.story?hpt=us_bn7

ELLEN MEAKER, ORONO, ME on Sat Oct 1, 2011 at 02:25 PM

It sounds as though there are a great numbers of friendly, intelligent, and terrifc students at Williamsville North, and, unfortunately, a very small group of poorly raised, uncaring, and pathetically ignorant students at North that should be suspended for a year or more until they get the help they need or GROW UP!

PHILIP WIGGLE, AMHERST, NY on Sat Oct 1, 2011 at 01:40 PM

'Martzloff urges any parent who suspects their child is being bullied, to contact the principal and asks that if they are unsatisfied with the response at the local school level, to contact him directly."

I find this amusing, considering the fact when I contacted him (after being unsatisfied with school administrators), regarding violations in sped law at his previous district, he did nothing. And, yes, they were found in violation.

DIANA PUCCI, ROCHESTER, NY on Sat Oct 1, 2011 at 11:28 AM

Suspension? I hope the parameters of suspension in this school district have changed. My son was suspended from a Williamsville High School not so many years ago. His "punishment" -- an offsite school, pickup an hour and 1/2 later than a normal school day - dismissal earlier than a normal school day, and the ability to have lunch from McDonald's. While in the "school" -- no extra assignments, no cleaning up the community --- just sitting in a room doing nothing until the end of the day. Did he learn his lesson? -- since he was suspended yet another time, I don't think the punishment was much of a scare.

MARY FOGARTY BATY, WILLIAMSVILLE, NY on Sat Oct 1, 2011 at 10:42 AM

I am very optimistic that Williamsville North is now taking serious, proactive steps to change its student culture to prevent bullying and to deal with it when it occurs.

On their website is a blue box with the words "Message to our community about BULLYING." If you click on the box, in a new window, is a letter dated September 29, 2011, which outlines the steps the district has taken and plans to take in addressing this serious problem. At the bottom of the letter are three links: 1) Letter to Parents/Guardians, 2) Helping children cope (with the emotions following Jamey's death and to protect against contagion suicides in response), and 3) Video Message from Superintendent Martzloff.

Each school principal has sent out information to parents on the subject of bullying on and programs in place and how to report incidents of bullying.

Martzloff stated that the Williamsville district is now exploring a partnership with experts on bullying prevention at UB to provide additional training to all adults who work with the children in the district and review procedures and protocols for handling bullying allegations.

He encourages to every child who is being bullied "If you're feeling threatened, reach out." [continued in video]

Martzloff urges any parent who suspects their child is being bullied, to contact the principal and asks that if they are unsatisfied with the response at the local school level, to contact him directly.

Special activities will be held at all schools on Monday, Oct. 3, which is World Bullying Prevention Day.

There will be upcoming seminars internet safety, cyberbullying, suicide prevention, and other topics related to the emotional safety of children.

Video has more.

MELANIE ABCZYNSKI, BROKEN ARROW, OK on Sat Oct 1, 2011 at 10:36 AM

@Mike S.: Let's not bring in this other nonsense about Jamey's supposed sexuality issues. None of us know his true inclinations... not you, definitely not me, and nobody else around here. Only Jamey and his Maker know for sure; let's leave that to the imagination, and not smear these blogsheets with that stuff. He was only 14, and likely still unsure as to what he wanted to become when he was an adult, for crying out loud.

Let's just leave it at this: a kid was pegged as an "oddball," was victimized very cruelly by some of his peers... using 21st-Century hi-tech means to really traumatize him, tried to reach for help but was given the bum's rush, and was so broken-spirited as a result that he decided to cut himself out of the picture.

Now, at least one of the punks got tagged. Exposing him, and the rest of his clique, to public scrutiny will be much needed disinfectant. Geraldo Rivera said it best: "Sunlight is the best disinfectant."

LLOYD MARSHALL, LOCKPORT, NY on Sat Oct 1, 2011 at 10:26 AM

Why suspend him and deny him an education? How about transferring him to another school, not in Williamsville, not in Amherst, but how about a tough inner city Buffalo school where he can practice his bullying tactics. I think he might change his tune there, try it.

BRIAN CHAMBERS, GRAND ISLAND, NY on Sat Oct 1, 2011 at 10:14 AM

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