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Harassment of Jamey's sister brings suspension
Published:September 30, 2011, 11:51 AM
Updated: October 1, 2011, 12:07 PM
A student accused of harassing the sister of Jamey Rodemeyer at the Williamsville North High School Homecoming dance last week has been suspended by the school district.
District officials and the Amherst Police Department continue to investigate the homecoming incident and the bullying that Jamey endured before the high school freshman killed himself last month. No other suspensions or charges have been issued.
The suspension stems from a tense encounter at the Sept. 22 homecoming dance. Alyssa Rodemeyer said that as she and friends chanted Jamey's name, a "little group" of students approached her to say they were glad her brother took his life.
"I think it's a step in the right direction," Timothy Rodemeyer, the father of Jamey and Alyssa, said of the suspension.
In other developments in the case, which has grabbed intense national attention:
- Alyssa revealed new details about the day Jamey killed himself and the events at the homecoming dance in an interview with CNN's Anderson Cooper.
- Someone recorded parts of the homecoming incident, according to Alyssa, but police do not yet have the video.
- Alyssa spoke to Amherst police detectives Thursday, and she and other students are scheduled to meet with district officials Monday.
- Williamsville Schools Superintendent Scott G. Martzloff has begun to publicly defend the district's response to Jamey's suicide; he will attend a meeting Monday of the Parent Teacher Student Association at Williamsville North.
"Let me be clear: We will not let the actions of any student threaten the emotional well-being of others," Martzloff said in a video posted late Thursday on the district's website that revealed the suspension.
The suspension is the first disciplinary action taken since Jamey's Sept. 18 suicide.
Jamey was subjected to relentless bullying at Heim Middle School, harassment he documented in online forums where cyberbullies attacked him.
Jamey, who had questioned his sexuality and was seeing a school social worker and a counselor, was 14 and had just started at Williamsville North.
His sister told CNN's Cooper that she was the one who found Jamey's body in their backyard.
"I didn't really have time to soak it all in because I was in a state of shock and I was trying to do everything to, you know, call 911, get my parents, you know, try to save him," Alyssa says in an "Anderson Cooper 360" interview transcript.
The homecoming dance for Williamsville North, where Alyssa is a junior, was held the same night as a wake for Jamey.
Alyssa went to the dance from the wake with some friends, at the urging of her parents and to take their mind off the pain of Jamey's death, she told Cooper.
Jamey's favorite singer was Lady Gaga, and when one of her songs was played at the dance, Alyssa and her friends began singing along and chanting Jamey's name.
That's when, Alyssa said, "like three" students came up to her group and told her they were glad Jamey took his life.
Eventually, Alyssa said, the students stopped insulting her brother and they ran from the dance when it appeared they could get in trouble.
"I don't understand who would have the heart to disrespect someone even after they're dead. It's mind-blowing," she told Cooper.
A parent reported the incident to Amherst police, who interviewed a number of witnesses before talking to Alyssa on Thursday, said Amherst Police Capt. Michael Camilleri.
The confrontation was over by the time off-duty police officers at the event began to investigate. Amherst police previously said two sets of students accused the other side of inciting the conflict.
Police have interviewed the students named in the original police complaint but they haven't decided whether charges will be filed for anything that happened to Jamey before he died or to his sister at the homecoming event.
The student's suspension stems from the school district's ongoing investigation into what was said and done during the homecoming festivities.
"While our investigation continues, we have already identified a student that we believe is responsible for this incident, and have imposed a suspension to the fullest extent allowed under education law," Martzloff said in the online video the district posted Thursday.
He did not provide details, and wasn't available Friday for an interview. District spokeswoman Rita M. Wolff said she could not reveal further information on the student.
The Rodemeyers said they are glad the district has acted against a student accused of harassing their daughter, but they hope Jamey's bullies are held accountable. The Rodemeyers and their daughter will appear Monday on "Anderson Cooper 360."
"I think it's awesome that all this attention is coming on. I think it's also somewhat a sad thing," Tim Rodemeyer said. "I think the reason it's getting all this attention is because [bullying] is such a big problem."
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RICK HUTCHINSON, BUFFALO, NY on Fri Sep 30, 2011 at 04:31 PM
Rick, ignorance isn't a less traveled road and you are a wagon master.
Don't make me call the GBLT secret gay squad on you. They have magical powers of gayness and they can even turn you gay....of course you will still be single.
MICHAEL SANTORO, BUFFALO, NY on Sat Oct 1, 2011 at 08:54 AM
Good grief ,man. I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy.
Just this morning I read an article how a female sportscaster wrote a story making mention of the Buffalo Bills and their fans.. If you read the response she received it would be very clear the Bullying is an epidemic in all areas.. It starts as a child and graduates to adults... YES.. we also have an entire community of adult bullies and this problem is everywhere.
I am glad that people are talking and all of us should be outraged, but when posting a blog, please be constructive and considerate! Don't contribute to the problem of hatred!
JOHN KENYON , EAST AMHERST, on Sat Oct 1, 2011 at 08:06 PM
CHRIS SICA, BUFFALO, NY on Sat Oct 1, 2011 at 05:44 PM
ELLEN MEAKER, ORONO, ME on Sat Oct 1, 2011 at 02:25 PM
PHILIP WIGGLE, AMHERST, NY on Sat Oct 1, 2011 at 01:40 PM
I find this amusing, considering the fact when I contacted him (after being unsatisfied with school administrators), regarding violations in sped law at his previous district, he did nothing. And, yes, they were found in violation.
DIANA PUCCI, ROCHESTER, NY on Sat Oct 1, 2011 at 11:28 AM
MARY FOGARTY BATY, WILLIAMSVILLE, NY on Sat Oct 1, 2011 at 10:42 AM
On their website is a blue box with the words "Message to our community about BULLYING." If you click on the box, in a new window, is a letter dated September 29, 2011, which outlines the steps the district has taken and plans to take in addressing this serious problem. At the bottom of the letter are three links: 1) Letter to Parents/Guardians, 2) Helping children cope (with the emotions following Jamey's death and to protect against contagion suicides in response), and 3) Video Message from Superintendent Martzloff.
Each school principal has sent out information to parents on the subject of bullying on and programs in place and how to report incidents of bullying.
Martzloff stated that the Williamsville district is now exploring a partnership with experts on bullying prevention at UB to provide additional training to all adults who work with the children in the district and review procedures and protocols for handling bullying allegations.
He encourages to every child who is being bullied "If you're feeling threatened, reach out." [continued in video]
Martzloff urges any parent who suspects their child is being bullied, to contact the principal and asks that if they are unsatisfied with the response at the local school level, to contact him directly.
Special activities will be held at all schools on Monday, Oct. 3, which is World Bullying Prevention Day.
There will be upcoming seminars internet safety, cyberbullying, suicide prevention, and other topics related to the emotional safety of children.
Video has more.
MELANIE ABCZYNSKI, BROKEN ARROW, OK on Sat Oct 1, 2011 at 10:36 AM
Let's just leave it at this: a kid was pegged as an "oddball," was victimized very cruelly by some of his peers... using 21st-Century hi-tech means to really traumatize him, tried to reach for help but was given the bum's rush, and was so broken-spirited as a result that he decided to cut himself out of the picture.
Now, at least one of the punks got tagged. Exposing him, and the rest of his clique, to public scrutiny will be much needed disinfectant. Geraldo Rivera said it best: "Sunlight is the best disinfectant."
LLOYD MARSHALL, LOCKPORT, NY on Sat Oct 1, 2011 at 10:26 AM
BRIAN CHAMBERS, GRAND ISLAND, NY on Sat Oct 1, 2011 at 10:14 AM
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RICK HUTCHINSON, BUFFALO, NY on Sat Oct 1, 2011 at 09:25 PM