Barack Obama got elected president in part because he promised to change the foreign-policy priorities of a Bush administration that was unpopular abroad, had strained relations with key allies and was facing a growing Iranian challenge and a continuing menace from al-Qaida.

So what's happened over the past 32 months? There have been a lot of bumps and bruises, especially in the global economy. But if you step back from the daily squawk box, some trends are clear: Alliances are stronger, the United States is (somewhat) less bogged down in foreign wars, Iran is weaker, the Arab world is less hostile and al-Qaida is on the run.

Tom Donilon, Obama's national security adviser, argues that this isn't an accident -- and that the president deserves more credit for accomplishing the goals he set in 2009. He would say that, of course; it's part of the national security adviser's job to spin perceptions. But it's true that Obama has had more success with the agenda he set in January 2009 than is usually recognized.

Then why does Obama's foreign policy often seem "blah," with people around the world talking about declining American power? Partly it's the president's low-key, sometimes deferential style, and the unfortunate talk by an adviser about "leading from behind" -- which stuck because it conveyed the extraordinary reticence of the man in the Oval Office.

A more important factor is that the administration's own goal has been to downsize American ambitions and expectations to meet reality. For a generation raised on JFK's "pay any price, bear any burden" rhetoric, this neorealism hasn't sounded like leadership. But the lower-key U.S. approach isn't a gaffe, it's a deliberate policy.

Donilon describes it as a "rebalancing" of foreign policy. The top priority remains winding down the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan; whatever the news of the moment, Obama is determined to exit from both. A second sort of rebalancing, enabled by the first, is paying more attention to Asia policy. A third is the reset in relations with Russia, which officials argue pays dividends on issues from Libya to Iran.

Libya is a good illustration of this resizing (and its pitfalls). Obama decided that military action was necessary to prevent a slaughter in Benghazi -- but he opposed unilateral action by the United States. So the White House seized an opportunity to "rebalance burden-sharing," which meant the Europeans and Arabs, who were closer to the problem, should do most of the work.

For an administration that came into office believing that allies needed to do more of the fighting and pay more of the costs, Libya has been a validation. Officials say one unsung hero is Anders Fogh Rasmussen, the Danish politician who is currently NATO secretary-general.

Syria is another example of "rebalanced" foreign policy, and its drawbacks. Some U.S. officials hope for an Egyptian-style solution, with elements of the Syrian army (perhaps backed by the neighboring and powerful Turkish army) staging a coup against President Bashar al-Assad that allows democratic elections and gradual formation of a new government.

But for a world used to an America out front, the quiet and secondary U.S. role -- however realistic -- seems strange. It certainly isn't making America any more popular with the Arabs. A recent poll by Zogby International showed that "favorable" ratings for the United States were lower than at the end of the Bush administration. Obviously, it will take awhile to accept that quiet American leadership is still leadership.